For ages 12 to 18

Skills you can practise now.

You do not need every skill on this list to become a leader. Pick one you already enjoy and one you would like to improve. Different roles call for different strengths, and skills grow through practice.

Start here: Choose a real group activity at school, sport, Guides, a library or a supervised community organisation. Take one manageable responsibility, agree on what success looks like, and ask for feedback.

Choose a useful mix

For a class project, planning and listening may matter most. A sports captain may need clear communication and fair decisions. An aspiring founder might practise budgeting and explaining an idea. A community volunteer may focus on reliability, safeguarding and working with different people. You can build the others later.

SkillSmall practice taskEvidence you can keep
Listening and askingAsk two classmates what would make a club easier to join. Summarise their views before proposing your own idea.Write down one suggestion you changed after listening.
Clear speakingExplain one idea in two minutes: the problem, a possible solution and a specific request.Ask a listener to repeat your request in her own words.
Writing and digital communicationSend a short agenda or update through your school’s approved channel. Include the decision, owner and date.Save a copy that another team member could understand.
Planning and follow-throughBreak a small project into tasks, assign a date and check progress once a week.Compare the plan with what actually happened.
Working with different peopleInvite a quieter person to contribute and share tasks according to availability, not popularity.Ask the group privately whether the roles felt fair.
Managing disagreementDescribe the issue without blaming someone, ask each person what they need, and agree on a next step.Record the agreed step and review it after a week.
Making decisions with evidenceAsk who is affected, what evidence you have and what could go wrong. Test a small version first.Record why you chose one option over another.
Money and resourcesMake a simple budget for materials, travel and contingency, with adult approval before spending.Compare actual costs with the approved budget.
Public speaking and confidenceStart with one question in class or a 60-second introduction at a supervised group. Build gradually.Notice whether your point was understood, not whether you felt nervous.
Resilience and feedbackAsk a teacher or coach for one change to try next time. Practice it on another task.Keep an example of feedback and the later improvement.
Safety, boundaries and integrityAsk permission for a group activity, protect other people’s personal details and say when a task is beyond your ability.Show the approval and a clear handover to an adult when needed.
Teaching and mentoringShow a newer member one task, let them try it and invite questions.Check whether they can repeat the task without your help.

Four weeks, two skills

  1. Week 1: Choose a group project and two skills. Ask a teacher, coach or organiser to approve the activity.
  2. Week 2: Try one small task for each skill. Keep a short record of what you did and who helped.
  3. Week 3: Ask for specific feedback and change one part of your approach.
  4. Week 4: Write four sentences: the situation, your part, the result, and what you would do differently.

Where to try them

A first four-week project, a team check-in, a two-minute talk, and a supervised mentor conversation give you places to start. Compare programs by age and access if you want a structured group. Clubs, jobs and volunteer arrangements have different supervision and payment rules; check with an adult and the organisation first.

For older teens, 16 to 18

Try coordinating an event, mentoring a younger team member through an approved school program, or documenting a small improvement at a part-time job. Ask your employer or teacher for a defined task and permission to use a de-identified result in an application. An unpaid role at a business should not be assumed to be lawful volunteer work; check the Fair Work Ombudsman guidance on unpaid work.

Reviewed 23 September 2026. This is a practice guide, not a required list of personality traits or a credential. Under-18s should use school or family supervision for external contacts, travel, spending and volunteering. Report an error.